There seems to be an issue lately where writers are unable to take valid criticism, and would prefer fans to remain silent on any concerns and not offer any helpful tools to help people improve their work. This can be particularly annoying for editors, readers, and anyone with a general sense of respect for literature as a whole. There are a few social media presences, such as a few YouTube Influencers for example, who would write without any editing help about very personal experiences and then throw fits about how their work was fairly and accurately critiqued. Such issues brings up and important thought I’d explore today: Is it possible for someone’s writing to be too personal? If so, does that mean it shouldn’t and can’t be criticized?

Personally, I’d say no, there is no such thing as too personal. Within legal means and reason, people are allowed to share their personal experiences or ideas, but everyone must understand in advance that just because they can write about something doesn’t mean everyone will like it. If we refuse to be open to adjusting certain plot points, or be okay with negative feedback, then we will never be pushed outside our comfort zone into creating writing that is truly unique. If someone is offended at the idea of their personal stories or beliefs being called into question, then the writer may need to reexamine whether or not they want that story to be told or not.

I believe everyone, including myself, can improve on my writing and we all should. There is always a problem to be solved, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try at all! Accepting criticism is an important skill to have, no matter what area of life may be directly linked to it. Criticism isn’t meant to hurt or deter the receiver, but to honestly let them know where they may need improvement.

It is a reader and fellow writer’s responsibility to be honest and forthcoming when sought out for help or improvement, so while critiques should be offered in a positive and supportive manner, it should absolutely be brought up. In the case of supporting one another, silence will never be golden.